Take a second right now and think of something that you’ve longed for. Something you’ve wanted so badly it may have even hurt. It may have been simple like a hug or appreciation. Or it may have been more complex like a relationship or wealth.
Whatever it is, take a moment to feel into that memory.
I have noticed that most of the time, you long for things from a space of lack or worry. You’re centered in the “not having” and consumed by those feelings. You’re focused on what’s missing.
From this place you are helpless. Questioning your value and worth. Wondering if life has it out for you.
From this place you can only create more of what you don’t have, pulling you further from the things you really do want.
From this place you can feel hopeless, maybe even throw in the towel and give up on your dreams.
I’ve been there and I get it.
I’ve been there and I know there is another way.
You are the source of your reality and the experience you have in the world. You are the fulfiller of your needs and the creator of your dreams. You, and only you, have the internal power to give to yourself in your times of need.
Everything you want and desire lives inside of your heart and soul.
Want forgiveness? Be the one to forgive.
Need affection? Initiate a hug.
Craving laughter? Do something funny.
Longing to be loved. Actively love yourself and others.
Abundance is a decision you make and a habit you actively create.
Day by day, moment by moment, you get to focus on the “having of” and be consumed by those feelings. You get to be consumed by what’s present.
With love and joy,
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