3 Ways You Are Ruining Your Life!

 Be honest, does this sound like you?

You’re balancing a million things and have little time for yourself.

You have a list a mile long of things you want to do, but no time to do them. 

You focus so much on others you forget about yourself.

You’re exhausted and half the time can’t even remember why.

You have all these “important” responsibilities that prevent you from living a joyful and fulfilled life and the day you get to focus on you seems to be moving further away.

Sounds familiar, right?

I spent years filling my days with overwhelm and busyness, never having time sit down and focus on me. These ideas or inspirations would come to me and I'd quickly sweep them away, not having the time to pursue them. I felt stuck, and resigned myself to believe that I was just not meant to live a life I was truly excited and passionate about. After all, there wasn't enough time in a day to complete everything I needed to, plus take the risk of exploring these crazy ideas and inspirations.

And then I learned how I was sabotaging my own life.


  • Constantly saying yes when people need your help.– Okay, now I’m not saying don’t help people. On the contrary, helping others brings joy, but not when it’s at the expense of you. You have learned to over-do for others and under-do for yourself.
  • Prioritizing unimportant crap.– There are definitely things that need to get done, but honestly, is the world gonna end if the dishes don’t get put away or the laundry waits another day? You are definitely making certain things more important than they really need to be.
  • Having to do it yourself.– If you don’t do it yourself, it won’t get done correctly, right? Wrong! I mean, unless you’re performing brain surgery all day every day, my guess is you could delegate. Even if some things are done incorrectly, does it really matter?

Making life busy is one of the many ways you stand in the way of your own joy. After all, the busier you are, the less time you have to really be present to your own feelings, needs, and desires.

How much longer will you wait? How much more time will you waste?

Free yourself and step into the EPIC life that is possible for you.

With love and joy,


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